Should You Get Your Wife a Push Present?

Perhaps your wife has been hinting to you that she wants a gift once she delivers your baby. Or maybe, you are appreciative of all that she is going through during her pregnancy and would like to show her your admiration. Whatever your reasons, giving your wife a push present is always a good idea. Not only will it help her to feel loved and cherished, it will also help her realize that you see her as more than just a new mommy; you see her as a sexy, beautiful woman.

After giving birth, a woman’s hormones are in disarray. This means that a new mother tends to be moody, cranky, and irritable. She is likely excited about her new baby but also anxious and worried that she won’t know how to raise him. Or perhaps she is concerned she won’t be a good mother. All of these emotions and hormonal imbalances combine to undermine a woman’s self-esteem, confidence, and mood. A push present is a great way to cheer you wife up, especially if it includes chocolate!

A push present can also be symbolic to a woman. For example, if you got her a birthstone pendant or ring, that item may eventually become a constantly worn reminder of her baby. One new dad bought his wife a bracelet and her comment was, “In my eyes this bracelet represents my daughter, and I am rarely without it – as I am rarely without my wedding ring. Not for the bling factor, but because I want my family with me symbolically even when we are apart.” Another mother told how her husband got her a birthstone ring for each of her three daughters and how they planned to pass those rings to their girls when they turned sixteen.

Opponents to the idea of push presents say that it is materialistic to get your wife a gift, especially since your family has just grown, you should be saving the money. But, as one dad put it, “it’s only money…and the look on my wife’s face when she opens [her gift] will be priceless.” A push present is a simple, tangible way for you to show your wife how much she means to you. Really, it is like any other romantic gift you get her; it is just a special way to express your love.