Should You Get Your Wife a Push Present?

Perhaps your wife has been hinting to you that she wants a gift once she delivers your baby. Or maybe, you are appreciative of all that she is going through during her pregnancy and would like to show her your admiration. Whatever your reasons, giving your wife a push present is always a good idea. Not only will it help her to feel loved and cherished, it will also help her realize that you see her as more than just a new mommy; you see her as a sexy, beautiful woman.

After giving birth, a woman’s hormones are in disarray. This means that a new mother tends to be moody, cranky, and irritable. She is likely excited about her new baby but also anxious and worried that she won’t know how to raise him. Or perhaps she is concerned she won’t be a good mother. All of these emotions and hormonal imbalances combine to undermine a woman’s self-esteem, confidence, and mood. A push present is a great way to cheer you wife up, especially if it includes chocolate!

A push present can also be symbolic to a woman. For example, if you got her a birthstone pendant or ring, that item may eventually become a constantly worn reminder of her baby. One new dad bought his wife a bracelet and her comment was, “In my eyes this bracelet represents my daughter, and I am rarely without it – as I am rarely without my wedding ring. Not for the bling factor, but because I want my family with me symbolically even when we are apart.” Another mother told how her husband got her a birthstone ring for each of her three daughters and how they planned to pass those rings to their girls when they turned sixteen.

Opponents to the idea of push presents say that it is materialistic to get your wife a gift, especially since your family has just grown, you should be saving the money. But, as one dad put it, “it’s only money…and the look on my wife’s face when she opens [her gift] will be priceless.” A push present is a simple, tangible way for you to show your wife how much she means to you. Really, it is like any other romantic gift you get her; it is just a special way to express your love.

Top 5 Unusual New Baby Presents

So you’ve been invited to a baby shower or a friend’s just had a new baby and now you have to decide on a gift. But with so much choice out there, where do you start? Here are my top 5 unusual new baby presents to give you a helping hand:

1. The Nappy Cake.

Before I hear you say ‘bleurgh!’ this isn’t a cake that you eat! A nappy cake is made from rolled nappies, arranged into tiers to resemble a wedding cake. They are then filled and decorated with useful baby items and make a fantastic centerpiece for the baby shower as well as a fantastic gift as they really have the ‘wow’ factor. They are available in different sizes and to suit all pockets so there’ll be something amazing for your budget.

2. The Baby Bouquet

Instead of the usual bunch of flowers, why not go one step further and give a bouquet made from baby clothing rolled to look like flowers? Usually combined with foam or silk flowers and foliage these can be difficult to distinguish from the real thing. Also, unlike real flowers, this gift won’t wilt and can be enjoyed until the arrival of the new baby when the clothing will come in very handy.

For those on a more limited budget, go for a sock rose. Make from 1 pair of baby socks they are rolled to resemble a single rose complete with leaf and then wrapped in cellophane & ribbon. Especially good as a small token baby shower gift if you are planning on getting a larger baby present after the baby has arrived.

3. Baby Sock Cupcakes

Just like the real thing, but kinder to the waistline! These cupcakes are actually made from little baby socks each nestled within a reusable silicone cupcake case and packaged in bakery boxes. Get pinks for a girl, blues for a boy or a combination of candy colours for a mouthwateringly visual treat.

4. Baby Smoothies

Want a unique gift? Go for a baby smoothie – so delicious mum-to-be will want to drink it! Looking like a fruity smoothie topped with whipped cream, they are in fact made from a baby sleepsuit & hat within a smoothie cup, topped with a weaning spoon. A very practical gift with fantastic & unique packaging!

5. Candy Box Socks

Strapped for cash but want to give a memorable & useful gift? Try Candy Box Socks – looking like a box of brightly coloured sweets, they are actually individual baby socks. These will definitely last longer than a box of candies!

MLM Training – How to Guarantee That Your Presentation Will Demand Your Prospect’s Attention

Tim Sales delves further into the topic of how to ensure that your prospect is interested in your presentation. Apply this know-how to your MLM business and see your results increase immediately!

First, let’s review the basic steps to getting good at presenting your MLM business. They are:

1. KNOW there are no born presenters or speakers, only those who have refined their skills.

2. Identify the skills to get good at.

3. Identify when you do one of those things correctly versus when you don’t do it correctly.

4. Do the correct behavior continually until you don’t even have to think about it.

Many people that are new to presenting think that the quality of a presenter is based on what he or she is saying. This is true to a degree, but there are MANY other things that make up a great presenter or a great presentation. We’ve all heard the phrase, “It’s not what you say, but how you say it.” I don’t know who said that first and in what context they said it, but I have found that both, “what you say” and “how you say it” are equally important.

Every subject you take up to study has a fundamental aspect that everything else is built on. The fundamental aspect that all of presenting is built upon are the 10 Communication Qualities.

When you read the MLM training content below, make sure you’re thinking of all audiences, meaning, don’t think I’m talking about just a one-on-one or just an in-home audience or an audience of thousands; what I’m going to share with you should be applied to EVERY presentation you give.

Those who have studied my MLM training will be familiar with what I’m going to share, but don’t think it’s exactly the same. The 10 Communication Qualities are applied a little differently in presenting.

The very first thing you need to get good at and take notice of when you do it correctly versus when you don’t do it correctly is:

Be INTERESTED in your audience; don’t try to be INTERESTING to them.

A presenter who is truly interested in his prospect, ONLY presents things that are valuable to the prospect. Whatever is presented must be relevant to the prospect. Relevant means, “having to do with.” Having to do with what? The prospect!

You might think that the fact that your company’s compensation plan pays out 60% is valuable to the prospect. Why? Because it’s valuable to you. In fact you can’t think of anything more important than that!

Allow me to tell you a quick story related to this. I emailed out a survey in which I asked a few questions to get feedback on what content I should train on in “Professional Presenter” (to be released soon). One of the questions I asked was “Think back to the last few presentations you’ve given that were unsuccessful. What went wrong?” One of the responses was a classic example of being INTERESTING versus being INTERESTED:

“I showed her the whole picture: the industry, the company, the products, and how a person got paid, and then she said, ‘I thought this was going to be more about the products, not how you make money. I couldn’t think about selling anything that I haven’t yet tried.’”

Don’t think I showed this example to you so that you will start presenting the products more than the business, because I have seen the exact reverse situation where the emphasis was on the product, but the prospect only cared about the money. The reason I showed that to you is for you to see that the WHOLE PICTURE as the presenter described it, was NOT the whole picture for that prospect. The prospect’s whole picture was the product.

So a simple qualifying question like, “In making a decision about a business, what’s most important to you?” would have prevented this disaster. To the simple qualifying question, the prospect probably would have replied something like, “I can’t sell any product I don’t like.” Thank you! NOW you present what’s interesting to the prospect. When you present what’s interesting TO the prospect, you are proving you’re interested IN the prospect.

1. When you’re presenting one-on-one, you would only present things that are relevant to that person. So first, you present what you know they’re interested in.

Sometimes you’re presenting something that a prospect(s) has no idea about. In this case, you need to educate them enough so that they can determine what they’re interested in. This is what I call “testing a topic.”

After giving the prospect an overview of your business or product, then you can test a topic, in the form of a question, and see if they have an interest in it. If not, don’t discuss it anymore. As an example, after discussing the product you can ask, “Do the margins you can make from selling the product have any interest to you?” If they reply, “Not really,” then you DON’T discuss the compensation plan; no matter how well you know it or how much you love talking about it!

2. When presenting to more than one person, you present what is relevant to the majority of the people in the room. As an example, if you have 70 people in the room and one of those is a doctor, don’t adjust your content so your whole presentation is directed to the doctor!

How would you know what is relevant to an audience? Well, you’d ask them. Walk around before the event starts and talk to people. Obviously this doesn’t change your PowerPoint slides, but it does give you the relevant information you need to transform your “interesting” presentation into something valuable to the prospect.

I hope this brings you success,

Tim Sales

To get a very thorough understanding of the 10 Communication Qualities that you must have to cause your prospect to talk to you, listen to you and follow your suggestions, visit the website link that is mentioned below.